Sunday, September 14, 2008

if there is one thing that i can change

i want to change the perception that youngest children are pampered n lazy n dependant n spoilt n ignorant n get everything that they want easily. duh.

to be honest,
i am tired of people calling me anak manje anak bla bla juz because im the only daughter in the family n worst, im the youngest. gosh. i didnt ask to be the youngest nor the only daughter.
n hell i dont get everything that i want from my parents. most of the things i have, i bought them using my own money. i worked during weekends when i was studying.n i buy things using my own money.

the family is still n will always be overprotective but dat doesnt mean i do not know anything outside the house. duh. doesnt mean i cant get to any place on my own. doesnt mean i am not allowed to go out with friends.

since i dont remember when, ive stopped answering question: adik beradik ade berape? ade kakak? anak last ke?. most of the time, i just smiled. silly, does it really matter if im the youngest? does it mean im not competent in my job? gila lah org2 ni. if it is like this, then it is better not to have children. sbb nnt xde sape yg nk jd anak last. kesian anak tu nnt org asek pk die manje n bla bla sbb die last.

n yes i do sometimes complain for not having sisters but i guess having brothers pun dh ckupla. u dont have to remind me betapa ruginye xde kakak la. i have enuff clothes n accecories for not having to borrow from any sister if i have any pun. at least i know how to change tyres n i know wats wrong with the car when it broke down that eventhe mechanic pun ckp 'wa, x bole tipu sama u a.u tau kereta maa'.

i do know some anak2 bongsu yg sgt manja n everything n they have nothing against being labelled as typical anak bongsu but hey, i am not one of those people.

we are not idiots people. n we do have hearts.so stop telling others that youngest children are pampered n useless. n stop telling me dat i am anak manja. telling me once is enuf but banyak kali? wait till u get it from me.

i really am offended.if its too much then of course i'll be offended.

8 comments:

mira amir @ miraneq said...

siapekah gerangan yg telah mnyakiti hati u ni?huhu

tYdYnA said...

yer...kamu lah anak pakcik omar yg sgt tabah..hehe..kamu bukan mcm anak last la..kamu mcm kakak yg ade 5org adik lg d bwh kamu..hehe..mane yg kamu rela..jd kakak yg nmpk tua atau jd adik yg mude tp manje???wakaka...

gaco said...

ini just persepsi sesetengah org jer.. maybe they just being jealous of what u are..

aini hanan said...

syaza, nak tau tak, i'm the eldest but i have to admit that i'm manja-er than my siblings! :) ask my family. haha. anyway, i think one of the reasons why the youngest of the family seemed to get everything is because of the time we live in. e.g. most of us only had handphones in secondary schools but then we look at our younger brothers bringing handphones to primary schools! you know, if we start comparing on those things, then there are many things the eldest didn't get. pedulikan apa org kata. orang yg ckp macam tu selalunya shallow.

mori said...

neq: huhu. i emo kot time tulis ni.

syahida gaco n hanan:
hehe. mekaseh~

*on d other hand, i think im being too emotional n sensitive yesterday. hmm...

ina said...

seyes aku x kesah pasal posisi dlm family. org kate character kte ade kaitan ngan posisi kte. ko ptt bersyukur ko bkn anak no 1/4/7/10/14/17 sbb characternye adela sgt x bes. mebe posisi tu memakse ko jd org yg x bes.

aini hanan said...

ina: position no. 1 tak best???? hanan tak best ke... hihihihi :P (sorry curi limelight kejap :))

ina said...

position no 1 tu terlalu perfect la hanan.. tu yg x ske tu.. kte pn no 1 ye..